What do parents need from you??

I want to share an incident with all of you. 

It was first Sunday after my exams. Because of exams my mind was blocked. I needed some refreshment, so I decided to go to my uncle’s place. It was April. I decided to go there by train. At right time I reached at railway station. Too much crowd. Train came and I got into the train. I found a seat and settled there. An old couple was sitting next to me. Train started. I was listening music and enjoying the natural scenes from the window. Suddenly my mother called me. I was disturbed because of the loud volume of mobile as I put on the headsets. I picked up the phone. My tone was so rude as my mother was irritating me by useless talks and I didn’t like that shits. When I was done, the old man was staring at me with anger like he wanted to slap me. But he controlled on his emotion and asked me. “You always treat your mother like this? ” After taking a long breath, he continued,” I don’t know what is wrong happened with today’s generation? Their mother who gave birth to him, always fulfilled all their wishes, sacrifice her life to make your future, but what they did to her?? They can’t even talk to her politely.” There were tears in his eyes.

I was surprised to see that. Why was he being so emotional just because of my rude tone to my mother? I couldn’t understand the matter. Finally I asked him whatever was running in my mind. After a long silence, he started, “My son who lives in Udaipur with his wife. From childhood we always take care of all his wishes. Whatever he wanted to have, we brought those things to him. For making his future, we ruined our life. For his studies, we took loan. We paid the installments of loan with many difficulties. Now when we need him in our old age, he is not allowing us to live with him. Now his wife became his priority than his parents.” He couldn’t speak further. Then old lady said, “I don’t remember the day exactly when he called me and talked to me with love. Now he said that we spoiled their married life. Their lives became hell because of us.”

Respect your parents..... they need you

She said,” In this age, where do we go? Now whose responsibility are we? The only thing I want to tell you that your parents are not a thing like use and throw. Respect them and be with them till their last breath.”

I was speechless with tears in eyes and shame on face. I called my mother immediately and apologize for my behavior and told her that I love her very much.

Then I felt much better, but lots of questions rose in my mind. What we children do with our parents? When will we understand that if parents treat us like their responsibility in our childhood, then it’s our duty to take responsibility of our parents in their old age?  This is very small thing to understand, but we made it too difficult.   

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Addiction to drinking and smoking leads to demoralization

Hello my dear friends, I am here to share with you the facts that I face around me related to teenagers addiction towards the tobacco, drinking and smoking. We will discuss here the reason why teenagers get addicted to these stuff.
Well, as you all know I am an engineering student and live in a hostel. There are too many people live in my locality. When I came first time here, I didn't know about use of tobacco, drinks and smoking, why people use these things and all that. I used to observe people when they use these stuffs. Now the question arises, why these stuffs are used by most teenagers, then I came to know some facts that most teenagers thinks about it :-
1. The main reason I can understand is burden of studies. To get rid of educational and career pressure, teenagers use these stuffs. And then shows that they use these things only for fun. seriously, I can't understand that which type of fun is in these paranormal activities.
2. The second reason is lack of self control. If someone is sitting with his friends which are addicted, and he does not use these things. Then friends try to make him convinced that he should try at least once. He tries it once and it is enough to get addicted to it. Once you are addicted to any one of these things, You can't get rid of it easily. Your self control doesn't work here anymore.
3. The third reason, which is the very foolish reason I have heard from some people. They think that these activities are the symbol of their manhood. If you are using these stuffs, then actually you are a man. what the hell is this?? means, to prove your manhood, you have to use these things. There is no importance of the special organ which is given only to man by god. Is it not enough to prove your manhood.
4. If we talk about drinks, It is the important part of parties. People used to drink in every condition. If your result is good, then drink to celebrate. If your result is bad then drink to forget your pain. If your exams are finished, then drink to enjoy freedom. If you broke up with your partner, then drink. Even if your friends birthday, then drink. In birthday parties, there is also cigarettes, Hashish and hukkah joints in additional quantity.

WHAT IS BAD IN THIS ??
* There is nothing bad in this, if it would be in limit. There is a saying also,"Too much of anything is also bad." Teenagers use these out of control, that is not good for the health as well as society.
* After using these, they reaches in another world. They don't know, what they are doing?? just foolish things that is enough for making them foolish in other people's perception.
* Wine is invented just for fun and to release the stress from mind, but there is a big difference in use of these things in India and foreign countries. In foreign countries, these are used just for enjoyment and fun, not more than this. But in India, Oh my god!! It has become the base of the survival. Means teenagers life is totally dependent on these useless things.
* I saw some people, they can't even go for the daily routine activities in morning until they don't use these things. They need these things same as a normal person needs food for survival.

Quit drinking and smoking

* My main problem is concerned with the money, they spend on these stuff. Parents earn money with the hard work and a lot of effort so that they can send money for their children.They think that their children will eat good, drink god which is good for their health, but what their children actually do?? they don't know about this. How can one spend parents money for these nonsense activities?? Is it more important than parents trust? I can't understand.
* In which age, you should focus only on your career and well settled future, teenagers runs in the race of using these stuffs. This affects their future as well as plays an essential role in their demoralization.

Demoralization

* I saw many cases, where students drink unlimited and then vomit here and there. If your body can't handle it, then what is the need of using it. Then they give bullshit reasons for this. for example: It doesn't feel good until you don't vomit. wowww!! what a great philosophy behind this. They consider these nonsense, as fun and enjoy. Indian culture has lost its value due to these shameless people.
* sometimes It leads to the ways that go to the crime. People do some serious offense after drinking like sexual harassment, eve teasing and even murder also.

finally, I request to the teenagers who are addicted to the tobacco, drink, hashish or smoking and reading this blog not to use these things. You are the future of India as well as your parents. Parents have a lot of expectations from you. Don't spoil your life by using this useless stuffs. Don't get addicted to these things.
A small request to parents also, please have a look on your children's activities, their company and environment in which they are living. It is your responsibility to take care of your children's moralization. They are the only treasure of your life. Don't let them go to the ruination.
Thanks.

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कविता : इंजीनियरिंग का बेहाल हाल

सुहानी शाम में बैठे थे चार यार,
ख़ामोशी से एक दूसरे को देख रहे थे बार बार,
चार खाली गिलास और एक बोतल शराब,
मुद्दा ये था कि किसकी किस्मत है ज़्यादा ख़राब,
नशे से ज़्यादा बेबसी थी आँखों में उनकी
एक अजीब सी भड़ास थी बातो में उनकी,
पहला बन्दा गिलास पटक के बात शुरू करता है :
साला, क्या सोचा था और  क्या हो गया ,
बचा खुचा नसीब भी अब चादर तान के सो गया,
दूसरे बन्दे ने उसकी हाँ में हाँ मिलाई,
झट से एक गिलास शराब और पिलाई,
तीसरे बन्दे ने अपना गुस्सा सिस्टम पर निकाला,
कुछ बोलने से पहले ही गिलास तोड़ डाला,
वो बोला साला नौकर बनने के लिए चार साल लगाए
नौकरी के लिए कॉलेज वाले ऊँगली पर नचाए,
उनके इशारो पर नाचने के लिए भी हो गए तैयार,
नौकरी के सपने देखने में ही जवानी हो गयी बेकार,
practical knowledge की जगह theory का है बोझ भारी,
4 साल में होती है फिर धना धन एग्जाम की बमबारी,
रात रात भर जाग कर बन गए है उल्लू,
फिर भी हमको मिला क्या- बाबाजी का ठुल्लु,
उसकी बाते सुनकर तीनो ग़मगीन हो गए,
वो बोलता रहा और ये  सब सो गए,
अब तो बेरोजगारी का आतंक मचाने लगा है शोर,
तभी तो लादेन जैसे इंजीनियर पकड़ रहे है ज़ोर,
आज सभी इंजीनियर्स का है यही हाल,
नौकरी की टेंशन में साला ज़िंदगी हो गयी बेहाल ॥

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कविता : काश! मैं हिम्मत हारता नहीं ॥

सभी भाइयों और बहनों को मेरा प्रेम भरा नमस्कार !!
आज मैं आपको एक ऐसे इंसान के बारे में बताना चाहता हु , जो सिर्फ मेरी कल्पना का हिस्सा मात्र है । वैसे तो वो चाँद तक जाने के सपने देखता है , मगर उसके प्रयास एक फ़ीट दुरी चलने के भी नहीं है । वो सोचता है कि जैसा भगवान ने उसकी किस्मत में लिखा है , वो उसे वैसा का वैसा बिना किसी मेहनत  के आराम से मिल जायेगा । वह अपनी ज़िंदगी बड़े ही निष्क्रिय रूप से जी रहा था ।
उसने अपनी ज़िंदगी में कुछ भी हासिल नहीं किया है । उसका जीवन कुंठा और कष्ट से घिरा हुआ है । मौत के बाद जब वो भगवान के सामने अपने कर्मों का फैसला सुन ने के लिए खड़ा होता है तो उसे पता चलता है कि उसने अपनी ज़िंदगी के साथ क्या किया है । पर वो  कहते है न "अब पछताय होत क्या जब चिड़िया चुग गयी खेत " बहुत देर हो चुकी थी , अब कुछ भी नहीं बदला जा सकता था ।
उसके पास तो अपनी गलती सुधरने का मौका नहीं था , पर आज के युवा लोगो के सामने पूरी ज़िंदगी पड़ी है । आप सब के पास अपनी ज़िंदगी संवारने का और कामयाब होने का एक सुनहरा मौका है , पर अपनी मूर्खता की वजह से उसको हाथ से जाने मत देना । ज़िंदगी का मज़ा लो , तो ज़िंदगी तुम्हे मज़े देगी । भगवान हर इंसान को एक मौका देता है , अब आपका फैसला है कि आप क्या करना चाहते हो , ज़िंदगी को एक नया और अलग मोड़ देना चाहते हो या जो चल रहा है उसी में खुश रहना चाहते हो ?? ये आप पर निर्भर है ।

निराश आदमी 

अब आपके सामने पेश है मेरी कविता । ध्यान से पढियेगा :-

"चारो तरफ अँधेरा है यहाँ,  नज़र कोई आता नहीं ,
 खुद में ही खो सा गया हूँ ,  पास कोई बुलाता नहीं ,
 मुश्किलें तो बहुत है मेरी,  कोई इन्हे सुलझाता  नहीं,
 तन्हाई से प्यार सा हुआ,  साथ किसी का रास आता नहीं,
 छोटी सी चोट से सहम जाता था,  अब मौत से भी घबराता नहीं,
 ऐसे मोड़ पर खड़ा हूँ मैं ,  यहाँ से निकलने का अब रास्ता नहीं,
 जीने की उम्मीद नहीं दिल में,  क्यों कोई मुझे मारता नहीं,
 एक दिन उखड गयी मेरी साँसे,  जीने में वैसे भी कोई सार था नहीं,
 अर्थी को कन्धा भी नसीब न हुआ,  कोई मेरा रिश्तेदार था नहीं,
 किस से करता साथ की उम्मीद,  कोई मेरा यार था नहीं,
 ना हो पाया अपने पैरो पर खड़ा,  ज़िम्मेदारी का एहसास था नहीं,
 जब हुआ ऊपर खुद से सामना,  जुबां पे कोई अल्फ़ाज़ था नहीं,
 नज़रे झुकाये खड़ा था मैं,  सिर उठाने का भी अधिकार था नहीं,
 जब होने लगा मेरे कर्मों का फैसला,  कोई  मेरा पक्षकार था नहीं,
 नरक में भेजा गया मुझे,  मेरे लिए स्वर्ग का द्वार था नहीं,
 कोसता रहा खुद को मैं,  क्यों अपने सपनो से प्यार था नहीं,
 पुरानी यादे बस यही कहती है,  काश! मैं सपनो को मारता नहीं,
 आज मैं भी अपने मुकाम पर होता,  काश! मैं हिम्मत हारता नहीं,
  काश! मैं हिम्मत हारता नहीं,
काश! मैं हिम्मत हारता नहीं ।।

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कविता :- समाज की बुराइयाँ

सभी भाइयो और बहनों को मेरा प्रेम भरा नमस्कार !!
आज मैं आप सब के सामने मेरी एक नयी कविता पेश करने जा रहा हूँ, उम्मीद करता हु कि आप सबको पसंद आएगी । जैसा कि आप सब जानते है कि जैसे जैसे समय निकलता जा रहा है , समाज में बुराई एक गंध की तरह फैलती ही जा रही है । इंसान को आज सिर्फ अपना भला दिखाई देता है , अपने भले के लिए वो किसी भी हद तक जा सकता है, किसी को भी शारीरिक और मानसिक रूप से कष्ट पंहुचा सकता है । लोभ लालच तो उसके व्यक्तित्व का हिस्सा बनता जा रहा है । जैसे रावण के दस सर थे , ठीक उसी तरह आज बुराइयो का भी कोई एक रूप नहीं है , हर दिन कुछ नया सुन ने को मिल ही जाता है । कुछ ऐसी ही बुराइयो के बारे में आप सबको कविता के ज़रिये बताने  कोशिश कर रहा हूँ :-
     

 

रिश्वतखोरी 

     आज के इस समाज की बुराइयाँ,
     बढ़ा रही मानव की कठिनाईयां,
     मानव अपने स्वार्थ के पीछे अँधा हो गया है,
     ईमान को बेच खाना अब एक धंधा हो गया है,
     पुरे देश में बढ़ रही भ्रस्टाचार की महामारी,
     कही पर रिस्वतखोरी तो कही है कालाबाज़ारी,
     नौकरियों में भी भाई भतीजावाद अपना रहे है,
     अपने रिश्तेदारों को ही नौकरी दिलवा  रहे है,
     योग्य युवक दर-दर की ठोकरे खा रहे है,
     मर-मर कर बची खुची ज़िंदगी बिता रहे है,
     आरक्षण की समस्या भी सर पर नाच रही है,
     योग्य व्यक्तियों को नौकरी की नहीं आस रही है,
     कई डॉक्टर, इंजीनियर को नहीं मिल रहा है रोज़गार,
     डिग्री ले लेकर बैठे है सब सब घर में बेकार,
     भगवन के नाम पर भी लूटपाट करते है लोग,
     क्या अब भगवन से भी नहीं डरते है लोग,
     फैशन के रंग में लडकिया गयी है इतना रंग,
     इनको देख कर दुनिया हो रही है दंग,
     कम कपडे तो ये लड़कियों पहनती है,
     और बदनाम भारत देश को करती है,
     सामाजिक प्रदुषण तो ये दूरदर्शन फैला रहा है,
     अश्लील चलचित्र की एक अलग दुनिया चला रहा है,
     आज मोबाइल हर किसी के पास मिलता है,
     आधे से ज़्यादा में अश्लील चलचित्र ही चलता है,
     ये लोग ही कर रहे है भारतीय संस्कृति का दमन,
     इनके सुधार से ही फैलेगी शांति और अमन,
     ये ज़िम्मेदारी सभी भारतवासियो को लेनी है,
     इन समस्याओ को जड़ समेत उखाड़ फेंकनी है,
     इन सबके लिए जब एक होंगे हिन्दू मुसलमान,
     तब दुनिया में नंबर वन होगा हमारा हिंदुस्तान ॥

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NewEins..... Eduneting India

NewEins is a community that is working to transform and to improve the basic structure of India's education system to make it strong so that it can become standardized, modernized and digitalized. 

Seriously, if we compare indian education system with foreign education system,there is no standard of this education system. It is concerned all about getting good marks and grades, that's it. Is it enough to create better chances for survival. obviously not.

Now a question arises in people's mind that from where the word "Neweins" did come?

well, everyone has ever heard about two great scientists of India, named Newton and Einstein. They were very intelligent and talented persons. NewEins is the mixture of "New" comes from Newton and "Eins" comes from the Einstein. Simply, it means NewEins is working for producing a number of Newtons and Einsteins from India. There is a lot of talent hidden in every corner of India, We just have to find it. 

So this is a brief introduction about NewEins. Now the Point is, What is NewEin's vision and mission? Why is NewEins working??

NewEin's Vision:- Basically vision means our ambitions, what we want and what we will do with our project.

As we search, we found that there is a very big difference between foreign education and indian education. In foreign countries, education standard is very high. And our education system having a low level of standard, can not compete with them.

So we want to expand the level of education, to bring it to the height, to make it modernized. We are also helping in the development of India by creating new trends in school education. We don’t want to make “Neweins” as a brand, we want to make it a community that is working for a better education system in india.

NewEin's mission:- In simple mission means goal, future thoughts regarding our project. Our                                                                  main objective is to create a digitalized hub of schools of India so that every school can interact with each other, interchange their views, ideas and thoughts that will surely help to increase talent in India. We are working for expanding the education at a huge level, finding out new geniuses and new talent from all over the india.                                 

For more details about Neweins, Please visit Our website:- Www.neweins.com

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song based on Honey Singh's rap- char bottle vodka

Dear Readers, today I am going to share a song which is based on Honey Singh's rap( Chaar Bottle  Vodka). 
This song is created by me, I hope you will like it.

"Saara din tension, sham suhani
   har engineer ki hai yahi kahani
   daud bhag ke classes kar lo
   nahi karo to lecture sun lo
   hello Mr., kaha tha tu?
   nahi padhna hai to ghar ja tu
   faculty bole jo samajh nahi aata
   mere se kabhi kuch solve nhi karata
   mai padh lu zyada to sir ghum jata
   kyuki kyuki.....
   6 classes roj lo,
   sir apna fod lo,
   pagal hum ho jayenge 
   koi to rok lo

   6 classes roj lo,
   sir apna fod lo,
   pagal hum ho jayenge
   koi to rok lo........ "

FOR MY READERS:- If you have any complaint, query, suggestion and feedback regarding to this post then feel free to contact me any time.

PIYUSH VIJAYVARGIYA

M-9571021201     

EMAIL- piyushvjrocks@gmail.com